Release Hidden Barriers to Your Success

by | Oct 26, 2010 | Mindset, Self Discovey

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Last night I attended a teleseminar called “How To Release Your Hidden Barriers to Love and Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate.” Although I’m not quite ready to start attracting my soulmate just yet (still need to get the divorce), I was curious to what they might have to say.

What I experienced was quite interesting. Among the revelations I had about how I attracted the man I’m divorcing into my life, I also realized how much my love life and the steps to attracting a better one mirrored my business life and how to attract a better one. And I thought I’d share my revelations with you, just in case they might help you out, as well.

Step 1: I am the source of my experience.
The first step in attracting your soulmate is to get clear on how you’ve created the love life you currently have. The same is true of your business life.

If you are struggling in your business, if you are not attracting ideal clients at an ideal rate, you need to take a look at how you are creating that reality.

When I am honest with myself, I know that I have created the challenges I’ve faced. I’ve let myself futz around and not get clear on who it is that I serve and how it is that I serve them.

Action Step: Take responsibility for your life and your business. The first step to solving a problem is to acknowledge you have one. Embrace that you have created your life and business as it is now … and you have the power to create the life and business that you desire.

Step 2: You must complete the past.
Old unresolved resentments, agreements and toxic ways of being can hold you back in love, life and business.

For example, I have unresolved resentments around my dissolved Mary Kay business, as well as issues around self-worth that came about during the dot com crash in the late 1990s.

These bits of unresolved anger affect how I approach business and need to be acknowledged and pruned if I am going to move on.

Action Step: Take a look at unresolved anger around career and business to see if they affect your business success today. Are you holding on to agreements that keep you in check? (Such as I don’t want to be more successful than …?) Have you forgiven yourself for previous failures or missteps? Acknowledge and let that stuff go.

Step 3: Transform your identity core beliefs
Core beliefs about who you are and what you are capable of can hold you back and stop you from reaching your potential.

For example, do you believe you are bad at sales? Worse, do you belief that sales people are slimy? These beliefs can stunt your sales!

Action Step: Examine your core beliefs. Could those that are holding you back be wrong? In another teleseminar I attended yesterday, I heard a story about someone who thought they were bad at math. A teacher instructed him in a new way and the person was doing college-level calculus that afternoon. Which just goes to show that what you think about yourself may well be inaccurate.

Step 4: Become magnetic to love
The presenters of the teleclass provided a three step process to becoming magnetic to love that is easily translated into becoming magnetic to business and your ideal clients.

1. Set a clear intention for what you want
Express your intention in terms of what you want to experience, express, create and contribute with your business. Come from a place of generating success, rather than wishing, hoping or plotting to get it.

2. Grow yourself
What kind of person do you need to be in order to experience your intention. Work on yourself so that you become that person.

3. Prepare yourself to receive
Open yourself to receiving the success you deserve. Release your doubts, inhibitions and negative self-talk that prevents you from accepting success.

Action Step: Set your clear intention. Make it as real and three dimensional as you can. Identify who you need to be to make that happen and work toward becoming that person. Then open yourself up to the possibilities.

Listening to this class moved me in so many ways. I realized things about myself that had not quite surfaced. I hope that sharing my thoughts with you in this post helps you improve your life and business, as well.


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